Comments on: ASK BARF: SHOULD I STAY?

By: cephalod

cephalod — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 18:29:21 +0000

I was recently experiencing something similar with my boyfriend of 5 years, and this column is actually what motivated me to do what I knew deep down what I needed to do for a very long time.

By: fuck-you-all

fuck-you-all — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 17:56:25 +0000

Majority of the people commenting on this are fucking pricks!!! You think you can say anything you want because you’re hiding behind a screen. You seem to have NO compassion for other people, probably because you have no confidence in yourself. This girl just wanted some advice and you’re all acting like complete assholes! (thank you Lesley, great advice.)

I LOVE YOU TORN! Life is confusing and you’ll figure it out. Just take your time.

To the rest of you…rot in hell…

By: Hopscotch on my unicycle

Hopscotch on my unicycle — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 21:35:33 +0000

you don’t love him. plain and simple. if you did, you wouldn’t even be thinking of leaving. so the best thing to do would be to pack your bags and go.

By: amy DANKins

amy DANKins — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 01:46:22 +0000

i am so in love with lesley arfin.

NOBODY not NO ONE, has better perspective and style to convey it.

By: pincer movement

pincer movement — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 16:18:16 +0000

if you don’t have sex at 23 i don’t know… not good

By: i

Tue, 23 Jun 2009 14:19:00 +0000

lesley you rule!

By: Bowling with Nixon

Bowling with Nixon — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 04:24:54 +0000

Did you ask him why he’s not having sex? I think you’d expect him to do the same for you. Also are you expecting him to be the only one that initiates sex, take turns on that, it can help break you both out of the “sex is a chore” rut.

By: beej

beej — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 01:52:43 +0000

well fucking done, lady.

advice lady arfin, you have come a long way. whatever you’ve been doing lately its working.

nice one.

By: Psycho Hip

Psycho Hip — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 22:24:50 +0000

I read it cause I love her (barf, not the loser)

By: Weowe

Weowe — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 21:24:16 +0000

The conversations will be so fun at work after you break up.