Dear Lesley,
Can you tell me what to do with my life? ‘Cause I can’t. MORE»
ASK BARF: DO ALL BALLS SMELL THE SAME?
12.10.08
Dear Barf,
Do all balls smell the same, or do I not have enough up close and personal encounters with balls to make a sound judgment? MORE»
BARF IN THE OBSERVER
12.03.08
When Lesley appeared in the tabloids next to Chloe, some of you asked, “What does she do?” implying she’s a trust fund kid. This is what she does. By the way, what is with this trust fund myth? MORE»
ASK BARF: WHEN IS IT OKAY TO CHEAT?
11.21.08
Dear Barf,
When is it okay to cheat? I have a friend who’s married and she says, “Unless you’re married, it doesn’t count.” She says if she could go back in time she would have cheated way more before marriage because after that, it’s off the books. Is that true? What if you’re living with the guy? MORE»
CELEBRITY GOSSIP: LESLEY ARFIN WENT TO MIAMI
11.17.08
Lesley brought some pals down to Miami and the paps went berserk. MORE»
ASK BARF: HOW DO I STAY SKINNY?
11.10.08
Dear Lesley,
So I think at the end of your book, you were talking about gaining weight in rehab, how much it sucked, and how you’ve lost weight now. so i am having major issues right now with the 30+ pounds i gained most of which have to do with beer and laziness, but even though i have cut those things out I still cant lose weight. MORE»
ASK BARF: WHEN SHOULD I START HAVING A BABY?
11.03.08
Dear Lesley,
When do you start thinking about having a baby? I’m 29 and my mom is all Midwestern and freaking out but here in the big city nobody does it til their mid 30s. MORE»
ASK BARF: TRANSGENDERED ISSUES
10.27.08
I’m a sort of average-boring looking 25 yr old girl. I like riding bikes, I work as an organizer, and I’m pretty snarky-charismatic. MORE»
ASK BARF: WHERE ARE ALL THE MEN WITH JOBS?
10.06.08
Dear Lesley,
I am in a bind and am hoping you can help. I hooked up with this guy about a month ago and we’ve been sleeping together about five times a week ever since. MORE»
WHAT DO YOU CALL THAT SITUATION?
08.04.08
What do you call this situation? You date a guy, you hate a guy, you break up and get back together. You get back together but not really. You break up but wait, were we even going out? MORE»
